Self-love - What according to your self-love?
Some think self-love is loving yourself simply without any conditions or limits but let me pause you here. I will tell you what according to me self love is. In today's busy world, all are busy doing their jobs, some are busy in their business, some in their family and some are busy solving the problems in their relationships but in all this, they forget their own self, they lose their own self their real identity. Self-love is something when in your busy life you take out some time for your own self and in that time do what you really love to do, do what you want may it be crazy but if it's giving you happiness do it, click your crazy pictures, dance, sing whatever you feel like doing. This is self-love according to me.
Who loves you the most?
At times most people forget to love themselves, they try to find happiness in their work, family, and relationships. They think if they are with their family or the one they love the most or the one who loves them the most then they are happy but in all this, they don't realize that no one can love them that much they love themselves. No one can ever love you more than your own self buddy. Learn to accept yourself as you are.
Why Self Love is important?
We all have a question in mind why loving our own self is so important? We have so many people who love us our family, our friends, and for some their life partners or girlfriend or boyfriend then why self-love is important?
So let me clear your doubt, anyone else may it be anyone our family, our friends, our life partner, girlfriend, boyfriend whoever it is they will only love us truly or will realize our true value if we value our own self, we love our own self. Instead of depending on others' love, we must love ourselves, cherish our own self, our own beauty. Instead of comparing ourselves with others in terms of beauty, and abilities, we must focus on ourselves.
To maintain a happy lifestyle, and a healthy stress-free life we must learn to love own self. At times people suffer from depression due to stress or tension and they feel lonely enough, but at that time they forget that they are enough for themselves, they at times forget themselves. That is the time that self-love comes. If we love ourselves, we will not suffer from depression, not feel lonely instead that would be the time when we will realize our true importance or I say the true value.
At times a very common question comes to our mind, this question even came to my mind also and that is what to do to love ourselves.....
Let me share my own experience with you. When this question came into my mind I read a lot of articles, read some books of self what to do to love to own myself, asked some of my friends and what else. Then one of my friends suggested to me what I should do to show some love to myself. My friend told me to spend some time with myself. In my busy schedule I should take out some time for myself and in that time should do whatever I feel like I love to do. I followed this, daily I spend some time with own self and in that time I sometimes use social media, click my photographs and appreciate my beauty, talk to my friends on calls, play with kids and sometimes simply I sit idle do nothing or sometimes I sleep and relax my mind.
It's totally up to you what you love to do you should do that in that self-time of yours. To love to own yourself you must also learn to appreciate yourself, your beauty, and care for your own self. But the very first thing you must do is to make yourself a priority above anything else. You must accept yourself the way you are.
"If I feel that I'm right, yet someone else feels that I'm wrong, who is right?"
According to me, if I strongly feel that I am right and still someone else tells me no you are wrong, I give more importance to my own self, to my own perceptions of what I feel for myself. If I feel I am right then I am right. Give more importance to your own perceptions, what you feel instead of giving a priority to someone else's perception about you.
"If you keep trying to satisfy others, you will never keep up. In the end, you will satisfy neither them nor your own self"
First, try to satisfy your own self, your own needs instead of trying to satisfy others, trying to keep others happy, focus on yourself first. We can't satisfy everyone, we can't keep everyone around us happy but yes if we are happy then maybe not all but we will be able to satisfy or make some of them around us happy. Be kind to your own self than others.
Why I tell self-love is the key to unlocking greatness is when you love yourself, you are kind to yourself, you are happy with your own self then you will be able to help others, make others happy and you will be even appreciated to love your own self.
Learn to love yourself, make yourself happy
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Author: Anushka Aggarwal.
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